Still considering about the Thailand mission trip. Well, Daddy and Mummy will be flying off tt morning i get back. I miss it by a few hours! But Daddy seems so keen of me to join them. And also, his birthday falls on that fri. It'll be nice if i could spend it with him. It'll be another celebration on the plane!
ELI TAN! Where are youuuuuu?!
it's the usual weekends girls' night out with great food, great company, great fun!
Steamboat is LOVE in such chilly weather!
shisha goes so well with belly dancing. and of course us, babes. LOL.
It was a stressful week for Weiling who didn't even have the mood to join us for steamboat that day! But anyway, i got her out last Sunday! Girls all love retail therapy, i realised. (or maybe it was the baos at the chinese shop!) I hope that did help her feel better :)
On the way, there was some may day demostration. We were figuring out what exactly they were protesting about. There were various banners. Some about labour rights, some about iraq war, some about human rights. I don't see the link, really. Then we say we would catch the news to find out, but I guess it's just singaporean to not to bother about all these.
Random:
Dr Phil’s show about lies and deception today got me thinking. He brought on show this woman whose husband’s a conman. Very well, never judge a book by its cover. Just like you, me, him or her, you wouldn’t know who around you is capable of deception. He doesn’t need any reasons to cheat. Or even if there is one that we never know of (perhaps for self-satisfaction), it wouldn’t be sensible to cheat when you do know someday the truth will reveal itself. To him, it doesn’t matter. But what’s appalling is that even when the lies are exposed, he goes on denying as if he’s living his own reality. He speaks with such eloquence, which puts me in doubt of my own judgments. It is that, which he uses to manipulate your mind. So sly and clever. I see in his eyes, neither guilt nor remorse. He goes on making accusation of others, blaming each one and every of them except for himself. It’s upsetting to watch how helpless his wife is. I feel so much for her trying to get him to face the fact, or to simply understand the motives behind those lies. Lies after lies. You just get so immune and surrender your own reality to fit his. Lying’s a cycle, which isn’t easy to break away from. Once you get started with one, you’ll need another and many more to complete the tale. I don’t condemn him though. ’Cause many a time, people find escape from reality in bad times in order to carry on with life. In his world, he is who is wants to be. He sees it, believes it and lives it. The deeper he falls, the more he drifts away from reality. It’s a comforting process indeed, however, never a remedy. And this will not do when his actions are hurting the people around them. It’s just not fair.
Well, lies are just not cool, although somehow we are all capable of commiting.
Remember, MORALS.. people.. MORALS!
Let that be history. :)
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